Sexpert Questions and Answers Part One

Creator: Dr. Manu Rajput
Published: 2020-03-14T16:30:36+00:00

Medically written by:

Dr. Manu Rajput
Managing Director & Chief Ayurvedic Consultant
B.A.M.S. (J D Ayurvedic Medical College & Hospital, CSJM University, Kanpur)
Reg. No.: DBCP/A/7694 – Delhi Bharatiya Chikitsa Parishad (2011)
Ayurvedic Sexologist & Men’s Health Specialist
Non‑Surgical Treatments for Men Across India

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Medically reviewed by:

Dr. Kanu Rajput
Managing Director & Chief Formulator
B.A.M.S. (Ramakrishna Ayurvedic Medical College, RGUHS, Bengaluru)
Reg. No.: 32413 – Karnataka Ayurvedic and Unani Practitioners’ Board
Ayurvedic Sexologist & Customised Medicines Specialist
Men’s Sexual & Reproductive Health – Delhi & India

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sexpert questions and answers part one

There was a time when Indians were reluctant to ask questions on sexology or on sexual behavior. But due to the involvement of a new generation, now they have started to ask questions from their partners, friends, and sexologist doctors.

They have even started to take part in discussions about sexology on many online forums. The concern here is, at least they are ready to discuss these things openly.

Here we are going to discuss some of those questions from women’s side and try to answer them in an effective and short way.

Question 1: My husband is less interested to engage on the bed? How can I make things interesting to him so that he likes to take this pleasure more often?

Answer: A good conversation is a fulcrum of any relationship. So talk to him, maybe he is going through some issues in his work life.

Secondly, don’t make him do things you like on the bed. Men tend to take charge during the sexual drive, so let him do that and appreciate it.

Third, maybe he is less experience than you in sexual acts, so lack of confidence in bed is natural to him.

And last but certainly not least, maybe he is going through some sexual issues from which you are not aware. Consult the Best Sexologist in Delhi in that case. Dr. Manu Rajput and Dr. Kanu Rajput will definitely help your partner with their wide experience.

Question 2: Is expecting sex in pregnancy is wrong?

Answer: No. Expecting something like an act of love making is not wrong. You can have sex in pregnancy, but with proper care and attention.

But since when you are in sexual act, you either focus on making love to your partner or taking care of the unborn baby who’s safety lies with you.

It’s very difficult to achieve both of these together. Thus, just to prevent you and your partner from frustration it is advisable for you to enjoy other acts of love making then penetrative intercourse.

Talking about its benefits. It can release your mental pressure to become a parent.

Question 3: Is oral sex healthy or not? Is semen is really unhealthy to swallow?

Answer: Talking about if oral sex is healthy or not is not as simple as it seems.

Firstly It’s a subjective thing. If the private parts are not properly washed or are having infection etc. Then it’s definitely not healthy. It can also lead to many Sexually Transmitted Diseases(STDs) and Sexually Transmitted Infections(STIs).

Many women don’t like to engage in oral sex. Maybe they have their own certain reasons but most of them find it unhealthy.

Frankly, you cannot put the blame on them. It is an individual choice. If you seriously like/love her then try to respect what she wishes to do. Same goes for females as well.

As far as swallowing semen is concerned there are many health benefits but complications attached to oral sex outweighs its benefits.

Apart from the risk of contracting STDs and STIs, semen due to its quite sticky nature can literally choke your partner to death, hence it should be avoided.

Note: Please be aware that we do not encourage practicing oral sex etc. Oral sex is illegal in many countries including India.

Question 4: My husband has some put on weight, and now he is facing difficulty in getting an erection. What can I do in this case?

Answer: A lot of doctors have stated that weight can create many issues in getting hard and sustainable erection for intercourse. This alone or with many other factors can cause Erectile Dysfunction (ED/ IMPOTENCE) to your male counterpart.

Apart from erectile dysfunction, being over weight can cause decrease in your energy levels, mobility during sex, and of course, buried penis syndrome, in which the penis is buried under folds of skin.

Well, this is enough for this write-up, we will come up with more discussed questions on sexual issues in another section. If you are a Male and having tough time having a blessed sexual life then you can consult Dr. Manu Rajput and Dr. Kanu Rajput at Sidri International Skin Hair & Sexology Clinic only by Booking a confirmed appointment.

About the Author

Dr. Manu Rajput
Managing Director & Chief Ayurvedic Consultant
Sidri International Skin Hair & Sexology Clinic

Qualifications:
B.A.M.S. (J D Ayurvedic Medical College & Hospital, CSJM University, Kanpur)
Reg. No.: DBCP/A/7694 – Delhi Bharatiya Chikitsa Parishad (2011)

Specialization:
Dr. Manu Rajput is an Ayurvedic Sexologist and Men’s Health Specialist with over 14 years of experience focusing on non‑surgical treatments for men’s sexual and reproductive health conditions across India. His expertise includes detailed assessment and management of phimosis, paraphimosis, balanitis, balanoposthitis, BXO, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, recurrent genital fungal infections, genital warts, low sperm count and male‑factor fertility concerns.

He leads Rog Pariksha (deep diagnostic analysis), image‑based evaluations where appropriate, and structured, diagnosis‑based treatment planning. His work emphasises privacy, safety and realistic expectations, with online consultations for men across India and in‑clinic sessions in New Delhi when manual non‑surgical procedures are required.

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About the Medical Reviewer

Dr. Kanu Rajput
Managing Director & Chief Formulator
Sidri International Skin Hair & Sexology Clinic

Qualifications:
B.A.M.S. (Ramakrishna Ayurvedic Medical College, RGUHS, Bengaluru)
Reg. No.: 32413 – Karnataka Ayurvedic and Unani Practitioners’ Board

Specialization:
Dr. Kanu Rajput is an Ayurvedic Sexologist and Customised Medicines Specialist with over a decade of focused work in men’s sexual and reproductive health. He designs non‑hormonal, non‑habit‑forming Ayurvedic formulations for conditions such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, low libido, low sperm count, male infertility, recurrent balanitis and balanoposthitis, phimosis, paraphimosis, genital fungal infections and selected infections that require parallel modern‑medicine evaluation and testing.

He reviews this content to ensure that all references to herbal combinations, formulation logic and safety align with Sidri International’s current non‑surgical protocols and evidence‑aware, referral‑friendly approach, so that Ayurvedic care is used appropriately alongside essential diagnostic and medical pathways.

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Level 1 vs Level 2: Which is right for you?

Choose the Right Consultation (Level 1 vs Level 2)

Aspect	Details
60‑second decision rule	Start with Level 1 if you have one main concern and it is recent (about 1–4 weeks). Choose Level 2 if you have 2+ core conditions together, or your concern is months/years, or you match any Direct Level 2 situation.
All conditions we treat	Erectile Dysfunction (ED), Premature Ejaculation (PE), STDs & STIs, Low Sperm Count, Male Infertility, Phimosis, Paraphimosis, Candidiasis, Candidal Balanitis, Candidal Balanoposthitis, Balanitis & Balanoposthitis, Penile Yeast Infection, Low Libido, Genital Warts, HIV Doubt Counselling, Nightfall, Performance Anxiety, Gonorrhoea, Chlamydia.
Core conditions (Level 1 or Level 2)	Erectile Dysfunction (ED), Premature Ejaculation (PE), Phimosis, Low Libido, Male Infertility, Low Sperm Count, Performance Anxiety.
Usually Level 1 (visible / infection-type conditions)	Balanitis & Balanoposthitis (including candidal), candidiasis / penile yeast infection, other penile infections, STDs/STIs (including visible concerns), paraphimosis, nightfall/wet dreams, genital warts, and similar visible/skin/infection concerns.
Fees	Level 1: INR 1500 per slot. Level 2: INR 7000 total = INR 5500 (Online Assessment & Evaluation) + INR 1500 (Conclusive Consultation).
Same fee for everyone	We keep the same consultation fee for everyone; it does not change based on your city/country, nationality, profession, income level, or social status (student, salaried professional, businessman, or public figure).
Why we ask your location	Please share your current country/city and time zone honestly—this helps scheduling and helps us guide you better about medicine availability/courier options (if required).
Direct Level 2 situations	Unconsummated marriage; pre‑marital performance worry; international/NRI/outstation patients with sexual issues (Level 2 recommended for structured evaluation); dhat‑type worry and similar long‑standing or complex concerns; combined problems such as ED + PE, ED + PE + Phimosis, Phimosis + ED, PE + performance anxiety, low libido + ED, infertility concern + ED/PE (any 2+ core issues together).
Media / supporting inputs (Level 1 visible conditions)	For infections/skin/foreskin/visible STI lesions/warts/phimosis/paraphimosis: clear close‑up photos may be requested when needed (typically flaccid; erect only when clinically relevant). No partner is involved—only the patient. If you are not comfortable sharing a required input for that level, do not choose/book that level; you may choose a different level (with limitations) or consult elsewhere.
Media / supporting inputs (Level 2 core conditions)	For ED/PE/phimosis/low libido/fertility‑related/performance anxiety: the doctor may request supporting inputs when needed (pattern details, relevant reports such as a semen analysis if already available, and sometimes private photos/videos if clinically required). No partner is involved—only the patient. We never ask for any intercourse video. If you are not comfortable sharing a required input, do not choose/book Level 2; choose Level 1 (with evaluation limitations) or consult elsewhere.
Consent	By booking a level, you agree to its information requirements (including photos/videos where needed). If you do not agree, do not book that level.
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Payment policy (read before paying)	Your payment reserves professional time and starts your consultation workflow, so payments are non‑refundable, non‑transferable, and not adjustable. This applies to consultation fees and also to any treatment/procedure fees (if applicable).
WhatsApp group (Level 2 only)	We keep one group for tracking. If deleted/exited, restart required (same fee applies).
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2) Symptoms (Simple “Find Your Problem”)

Aspect	Details
Erectile Dysfunction (ED)	Erection is not hard enough, not lasting, or difficult to get repeatedly.
Premature Ejaculation (PE)	Ejaculation happens too quickly; difficulty delaying; frustration/stress due to timing.
Phimosis	Foreskin is tight and does not retract easily; pain/tightness; redness or repeated irritation/infections under foreskin.
Low Libido	Low interest in sex; reduced desire/thoughts; sex feels forced or “not in mood” often.
Male Infertility	Trying for pregnancy for a long time without success; may have no symptoms except difficulty conceiving.
Low Sperm Count	Usually known from semen report; may be linked with difficulty conceiving.
Performance Anxiety	Fear of failure; overthinking during sex; erection issues mainly with partner due to stress.
Nightfall (wet dreams)	Semen discharge during sleep; frequent episodes causing worry or weakness feeling.
Dhat syndrome type worry	Excess worry about semen loss (in urine/nightfall) with anxiety, weakness feeling, or sexual concerns.
Repeated UTI‑type symptoms	Burning urination, frequent urination urge, lower abdominal discomfort; episodes keep coming back.
Unconsummated marriage	Unable to have intercourse after marriage due to fear, pain, erection issue, or penetration difficulty.
Pre‑marital performance worry	Strong fear “what if I fail the first time” causing stress symptoms before marriage/first intercourse.
Paraphimosis	Foreskin pulled back and stuck behind the glans; swelling and pain/tight ring (needs urgent evaluation).
Candidiasis / Penile Yeast Infection	Itching, redness, burning; white deposits/discharge sometimes; recurrent irritation.
Balanitis / Balanoposthitis	Redness/swelling/pain of glans (and foreskin); burning, odor/discharge sometimes.
STDs / STIs	Discharge, burning urination, sores/ulcers, rash; sometimes no symptoms (tests may be needed).
Genital warts	Small bumps/growths on genitals; may increase over time.
HIV Doubt Counselling	Anxiety after exposure; confusion about risk/testing windows; repeated fear.
Gonorrhoea	Burning urination; yellow/green discharge sometimes; testicular pain sometimes.
Chlamydia	Often no symptoms; burning urination/discharge sometimes; testicular discomfort sometimes.

3) Why Online Consultation Works (Clear Reasons)

Aspect	Details
Proper time with doctor (face-to-face clarity)	The consultation is the same kind of structured discussion you would do face‑to‑face—history, symptoms, timeline, and clear explanation—but on a call many patients feel less anxiety/pressure and can describe the real situation more comfortably.
Better comfort & privacy	You can consult from home, avoid travel/waiting, and speak more openly about sensitive problems.
Real‑life performance understanding	In a normal clinic visit, erection or ejaculation cannot practically be observed; a structured history of what actually happens at home gives a more realistic understanding.
White‑coat anxiety reduced	Many people cannot get or maintain an erection in a clinical environment due to anxiety; discussing from home reduces pressure and helps describe the real situation.
Time, travel and cost saved	No commuting, no waiting, no repeated visits just for follow‑ups; helpful for working professionals, outstation patients and NRIs.
After‑office convenience	You can usually coordinate consultation timing around office hours.
Follow‑up becomes easier	Follow‑up consultations can be done via WhatsApp/call, with the same consultation fee per follow‑up slot (INR 1500).
Transparency (tests, labs, pharmacies, medicines)	We do not do tie‑ups with labs or pharmacies for commissions, so if tests are needed you may choose any reputable lab of your choice. You may also buy prescribed medicines from any Ayurvedic store you prefer—offline or online; only the consultation fee is charged by us. Customised Ayurvedic medicines (when recommended after evaluation and mutually agreed) are prepared separately and charged separately.
Verified trust (reviews)	Before booking, you can read patient feedback on Practo, Lybrate, JustDial and Google Reviews to understand our consultation process and patient experience.

4) Level 1 (Standard Consultation)

Aspect	Details
What you get	A structured consultation focused on symptoms and case history—similar to what you would share face‑to‑face.
Consultation time (slot + usual duration)	Level 1 is booked as a 20‑minute paid slot (INR 1500). In most cases, the doctor may extend the consult to around 20–30 minutes if medically needed to understand your situation and explain clearly; in rare cases it may finish in 15–20 minutes if everything is already clear. If time gets misused due to repeated/irrelevant questions (or adding new issues), an additional paid slot may be required so the next patient’s appointment time is respected.
Best suited for	One main issue, early-stage concerns, and visible/skin/infection-type penile conditions that can be evaluated well with clear close‑up photos when needed.
What happens next	The doctor explains the concern, advises lifestyle/hygiene changes when needed, and provides a prescription-based plan; medicines (if any) are paid by the patient separately from any Ayurvedic store/website of their choice.
Follow‑ups	Follow-up consultations are available when needed and are charged at the same consultation fee per slot (INR 1500).

5) Level 2 (Detailed Assessment + Conclusive Consultation)

Aspect	Details
What Level 2 is	A deeper Online Assessment & Evaluation followed by a Conclusive Consultation, designed for complex or long‑standing sexual health concerns.
Who should consider Level 2	Not improved after Level 1, months/years of problems, multiple sexual issues together, unsatisfactory self/other treatments, unconsummated marriage, pre‑marital performance worry, or NRI/international/outstation patients in these categories.
What is evaluated (safe wording)	Multiple aspects of sexual function and difficulty patterns (erection quality, ejaculation timing, desire, anxiety/stress factors, and penetration‑related difficulty as described in history). We never ask for intercourse videos, and we do not ask for any partner‑involved content.
What you submit	Detailed case history with answers to guided questions, plus photos/videos or other supporting inputs when required so the main problem and severity can be understood accurately.
Conclusive consultation	Findings and severity are discussed, then the doctor helps decide whether prescription medicines and/or customised Ayurvedic medicines are suitable, and what the next steps and expected commitment look like.
Conclusive consultation duration	The conclusive consultation is booked as a paid slot (INR 1500), and may extend up to around 40–50 minutes when the doctor feels it is necessary to explain properly; in rare cases it may finish earlier if everything is already clear. If time is misused or many new issues are added, an additional paid slot may be needed to protect other patients’ appointment times.
Fees	Level 2 total = INR 7000 (INR 5500 for Online Assessment & Evaluation + INR 1500 for Conclusive Consultation).
Validity & discipline	Level 2 payment is valid for 30 days. Within this period, you must share the required details/media so the conclusive consult can be meaningful and timely; delays beyond the validity may require re‑payment and restarting the process.
WhatsApp group continuity (Level 2 only)	For Level 2, we keep communication in one WhatsApp group so everything stays clear and trackable in writing for your benefit. If the group is deleted/exited, the process must be restarted and the same fee applies again.

6) Photos/Videos for Accurate Evaluation (Level 1 + Level 2) — equal clarity

Aspect	Details
Level 1 (visible / infection-type)	For visible penile skin/inflammation/infection concerns (balanitis/balanoposthitis including candidal, candidiasis, penile yeast infection, visible STI lesions, genital warts, phimosis/paraphimosis), clear close‑up photos may be requested when needed (typically flaccid; erect only when clinically relevant).
Level 2 (functional / pattern-based)	For ED/PE/performance anxiety and some complex cases, the doctor may request short, private supporting media only when needed to understand patterns better; it is never an intercourse video and never involves a partner.
Comfort & consent	Only what the patient is comfortable sharing is requested, and it is used only for medical evaluation as part of the consultation. If you are not comfortable sharing a required input for that level, do not book that level; you may choose Level 1 with limitations (where applicable) or consult elsewhere.
No partner involved (important)	Any requested photos/videos must be of the patient only. No partner should be present or involved, and we never ask for intercourse videos. Share only what the doctor asks for, and you may keep the frame limited to the affected area only (no face, no identifying background).
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